When in Doubt, Add Butter

How awesome is that for a title of a book?  AND, how great is this cover:

This is the book Brittney, Alysha, and I read for our book club, which we are meeting to discuss tomorrow.  I’ve had multiple people tell me the cover alone made them want to read this book, and in this case, it’s perfect fine to judge a book by it’s cover!  Without further ado…

When in Doubt, Add Butter

Here is the description from goodreads.com:

“As far as Gemma is concerned, her days of dating are over. In fact, it’s her job to cater other peoples’ dates, and that’s just fine by her. At thirty-seven, she has her own business, working as a private chef, and her life feels full and secure. She’s got six steady clients that keep her hands full.

There’s Lex, the fussy but fabulous department store owner who loves Oysters Rockefeller and 1950s comfort food; Willa, who needs to lose weight under doctor’s orders but still believes butter makes everything better; a colorful family who may or may not be part of the Russian mob; an überwealthy Georgetown family; the picture-perfect Van Houghtens, whose matriarch is “allergic to everything”; and finally, a man she calls “Mr. Tuesday,” whom she has never met but who she is strangely drawn to.

For Gemma, cooking is predictable. Recipes are certain. Use good ingredients, follow the directions, and you are assured success. Life, on the other hand, is full of variables. So when Gemma’s takes an unexpected turn on a road she always thought was straight and narrow, she must face her past and move on in ways she never would have imagined. Because sometimes in life, all you need is a little hope, a lot of courage, and—oh yes—butter.”

As you can tell from the description, this would be considered chick lit.  I typically don’t go for chick lit, but I loved this book!  I thought the main character was interesting and I liked her, so it was easy to root for her.  I also loved that the book was about cooking and wasn’t always about her love life — her work life crept in quite a bit, too.

This book was incredibly easy to read, which actually made me sad because I flew through it.  This is one of those books where you just really like the characters and want to hang out with them, not fly through the book and be done with them.  It was also so nice to not really think during this book!  I’m all for deep and meaningful books, but I’m all for fun and lighthearted, which this definitely was.

My only two problems were that it was a bit predictable (I saw the big reveal from miles away, but I wanted it to happen, so I was not at all upset) and that there wasn’t quite enough about her cooking and her clients.  She had some super weird and crazy clients, and I would have liked to see more interaction with them, along with more info about what she cooked for them, especially for the people with ridiculous food requirements.

But overall, I loved this book.  It was fun to read, definitely kept my attention, and I feel like the book is just like the cover — colorful, fun, and draws you in.  I definitely recommend this for a summer read!

Weekend Recap: Wedding Shower with My In-Laws

Hi everyone!

Another MIA weekend because I spent another great one with family and friends!  So, here’s a quick recap of the weekend:

Friday

After heading to Bed, Bath & Beyond to tweet our registry and picking up some Panera, James and I lounged on the couch with Milo and watched the NFL Draft.  I didn’t think the draft was all too exciting this year, but still great to hang out with my boys.  I also read a little of this book, which Alysha, Brittney, and I are reading for our new book club meeting:

I’m not too far into it, but I love it so far!

Saturday

Saturday morning, after a quick 7-mile run around the neighborhood (it was BEAUTIFUL out!), we were off to James’s hometown to see his family.  His mom and sister threw me a Pampered Chef bridal shower and James hung out with his grandpa and uncles while the ladies were with me.

It was such a blast, great food, and wonderful times with my future in-laws.  I absolutely love them and loved spending time with James’s mom, stepmom, sisters, grandmas, aunts, and cousin.

Sunday

This morning, we hung out with James’s mom, stepdad, and niece for a bit, before heading to breakfast with his grandma.  We then stopped by Macy’s, and because of some sales and gift certificates we had, we got these outdoor stemless wine glasses for $1.46 — a DOLLAR and forty-six CENTS!

They were on our registry, but about to be discontinued, so we said what the heck.  Such a deal!

After hanging out with James’s grandma, sister, and her boyfriend, we headed back to Milwaukee to pick up out boy and relax with him.  I immediately headed outside with him because it was so beautiful out, and I wanted him to enjoy the outside.

He’s a little pooped now :)

After some household chores, James and I are now finally just hanging out and getting ready for our work week, then the wedding of one of my best friends, Emily!

It’s going to be a great week!!  Have a good one!

The End of Your Life Book Club

Hi everyone!

WordPress was working this time around!  Yay!

Today, I have the book review I was going to post yesterday.  Alysha, Brittney, and I recently finished our latest book for our book club, which happened to be a book about book clubs.  Crazy, huh?

We read The End of Your Life Book Club, which made a ton of end of the year best lists for 2012, so I was interested to read it, so here we go:

The End of Your Life Book Club by Will Schwalbe

First things first, the book is about a forty-year-old-ish man who finds out his mother has incurable cancer.  Both he and his mother are big readers, and are spending a lot of time together at her chemo appointments, so they decide to start a two-person book club.

Each chapter talks about a book they are reading while also talking about what is going on with the treatments, as well as in each of their lives.  In other words, this book is mainly a memoir about a man’s experience with his mom’s cancer and then books they read along the way.

I have mixed feelings about this book — I both loved it and was annoyed by it.

I loved the idea of starting a book club with you mom.  In fact, I want to start a book club with my mom now.  I loved that their conversations about each book evolved into a conversation about stories from his mom’s life.  I have recently been spending some time asking my parents for their stories, so I loved this aspect.

I also found the characters interesting and was always hoping for the best when the author’s mom would receive health news.  Honestly, I liked the author’s dad the most, and he was the one I felt for the most throughout this ordeal.  Overall, I thought this book was interestng, and I enjoyed reading about their thoughts on the books.

A few things did annoy me though.  First of all, at times I felt Schwalbe’s writing was a bit pretentious because of how long and  convoluted his sentences were.  I think people often think flowery writing is the best, but sometimes conciseness is just necessary and more appropriate, and he seemed to avoid that.  I also got a little frusterated with his mom, which is terrible to say.  She was clearly an educated, dedicated woman, but sometimes it seemed like she was preaching about the right way to do things or the things that everyone should be doing, which I wasn’t the biggest fan of.

My last complaint is that I didn’t regconized any of the books they were reading — I think it would have been a bit more enjoyable if I had an interested in the books (some I did, but few), but that’s more a commentary on what I like to read than anything else :)

Overall, I did like this book.  I found it interesting and engaging, and I’m glad I read it.  However, it’s not a page-turner, but more of a book to sit and reflect about after reading.  I would recommend reading it for a change of pace, as long as you know what you are getting into.

I hope that was helpful — ironically, this was a hard one to talk about for a book club.  Odd, huh?

That’s it for today, not sure what I have in store for tomorrow, but something good!!

 

 

Sunny Weekend Recap

Hi everyone!

So was anyone having major wordpress issues last night?  I tried to post this then, but it wasn’t working for me.  Anyway…

Sorry I was gone forever!

I had every intention of posting a book review Thursday of The End of Your Life Book, but I didn’t…I think I fell asleep?  So that will be coming tomorrow.  In the meantime, now I’m back for my weekly weekend recap.

On Friday night, James and I caught up on our tv shows as always (are you watching Hannibal?  You should).  We switched it up this time around with a Papa Murphy’s pizza.

So good!

We got the gourmet veggie, and it was delicious!  I think we have found a new Friday tradition.

Saturday, we headed to Indiana to go to my grandma’s house to get some furniture.  Our house is still not entirely furnished, so it was nice to get a few things to make it more of a home.

We came back with a dining room table and chairs, a server for the dining room, two twin beds for one of the guest rooms, a dresser, and a night stand.

New dining room set

New server

New guest room furniture

New dresser

Milo claiming the bed for himself

Now 3 of the four guest rooms are furnished!  James thinks the guest room is a little girly, but Milo seems to enjoy it so that’s all that matters :)  Also, the night stand and dresser were my mom’s, which I think is really cool!

The last thing I got was this amazing picture to hang in my office at work — I’m obsessed with it!

LOVE

Sunday was spent cleaning the house and enjoying the sunshine.  I got in a 10k run (distance, not an actual race), then headed into the back yard to play ball with this guy.

Ready to play!

Get ready for some major Milo time…

With his ball

Chasing a ball (don't worry, he's not dumb for running passed that other ball, I threw one that he is actually chasing)

Ready for more

C'mon, Mom!

Now he's pooped

Resting in the shade

And cooling off inside

After a wonderful dinner of salmon patties (recipe from the blogger meet-up) and brussel sprouts, it was time to relax then head to bed.

Hope you had an amazing weekend, and I’ll be back tomorrow with a book review!

Thursday Tangents

Hi everyone!

One more day for some of us and the weekend is already here for others.  Either way, good times ahead :)

Tonight,  I want to do my  weekly tangents post — best way to hit on a lot of random things floating in my head!

1.  Thanks for all your song suggestions!  I need new music always when I run or I get bored, so I’m excited for these new options.

2.  So my 5 mile run turned into a 6.5 miler.  I felt great so I just kept going and ran until the treadmill turned off after one hour.  I hate when it does that, but an hour was plenty today.  Also, might have listened to the Fall Out Boy song six times during my run — yes, 6.

3.  The new Real World started last night.  To be honest, I sort of hate the Real World these days (although I did want to be on it soo bad when I was younger), but I have to watch to get to know the people who will be on the Challenges — you know, the fifth major sport.  My early predictions?  Marlon and Jessica are my two faves.

4.  James and I bought these chips on a whim and I am obsessed!  They are going way too fast!

5.  I don’t have an engagement ring :(  Hence why I wasn’t wearing a ring in this picture:

There wasn’t a wedding band designed with my engagement ring, so one has to be custom made.  So the jeweler took my ring Monday to make a mold, and with Easter coming up and the store being closed, I probably won’t get it back til Wednesday or later.  I miss it!

6.  I stayed up late (oooh 10p.m., so crazy!) to watch the Real World last night, so I was struggling today, but look who else is tired from staying up with me:

He tried to sleep, but I kept waking him up by squeezing him and giving him kisses.  I’m sure he’s over me at this point.  I also have so many pictures of him like this (see yesterday’s post) — he probably hates that I portray him as so lazy, but, well, he is :)

7.  Speaking of dogs and Easter, is this not the cutest picture you have ever seen?

Go to Buzzfeed to look at the full post and a bunch of other pictures of this dog, but c’mon.  I die.

8.  Finished Anatomy of a Murder last night, so review coming soon.  James and I are hoping to watch either In Cold Blood or Witness for the Prosecution this weekend, so I’ll do a combined legal drama post — I know, I know, what could BE anymore exciting :)

On that note, time to watch some basketball!  (IU for me and Marquette for James).

Night!

 

Funny Ladies’ Books Reviewed

Yeah, that’s a super weird title — oh well, sue me.  I’m hungry, so I can’t think straight :)

I just realized today that I am wayyyy behind on reviewing two books I read on vacay, and because both are supposed to be humor books written by ladies, I figured I would group them together.  I will review them in order of how I liked them….

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me (and Other Concerns) by Mindy Kaling

No surprise that this one was my favorite because, well, I love Mindy Kaling.  Kelly Kapoor has always been my favorite character on The Office, and despite some critical naysaying, I’m a big fan of The Mindy Project.  I find Mindy simply delightful, which is exactly how I would describe this book.

This book is a collection of short stories from Mindy’s childhood, time in New York trying to “make it,” some post-”make it” time, and most importantly, a whole bunch of randomness.  And I loved it!

I read Tina Fey’s book, which is often compared to this, but I liked this better.  I laughed out loud multiple times at Mindy, especially because I imagined everything in her voice — which adds to the humor.

This is definitely an incredibly easy read (she even says as much in the intro), but it was hilarious, perfect for the beach, and one of those fun books that you need every once in awhile when you don’t want to think critically, you just want to enjoy reading and enjoy life.  We all need those books!

As a disclaimer, don’t forget — I LOVE Mindy.  This could have added to my enjoyment of the book, but if you are familiar with her at all, I think there is something in here for everyone to enjoy!  Put this on your to-read list especially if you are going on vacation or are in need of some light-hearted fare.

Bitter is the New Black by Jen Lancaster

This one I read on a whim.  I wasn’t sure what I was really getting into, but I heard good things and that it was funny, so I dove in.

This book is a memoir about a high-powered, money-spending executive who gets laid off and has to navigate the world with fading money (when she used to drop thousands of dollars on shoes and what have you) and all the madness in between.  The story of losing her job and trying to find a new one is interchanged with stories about rescue dogs, apartment hunting, a Vegas wedding, and various job interviews and trips to the unemployment office.

Although I liked Mindy’s book better, I really enjoyed this one, too!  Honestly, I wasn’t a huge fan of Jen (pre-losing her job, she was just terrible [which may have been a bit exaggerated]), and although as the book went on I liked her more, I still felt like she was a little arrogant.

But, her stories were funny, her significant other was a fun character, and the book takes place in Chicago, which I liked a lot.  This book was a little long, especially for being a light-hearted, funny book, but it was also an incredibly easy read, and again, absolutely perfect for reading on vacation.  No heavy thinking here, just more light-hearted reading and funny stories.  I like Mindy better than Jen, but this was still a good book that was fun to read.

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I forgot how much I love books like these–funny memoirs.  I read some Laurie Notaro in the past, who I absolutely loved, and these books reminded me that I need to get back to that genre.  These books just made me happy — plain and simple.  I still want to read best-sellers and books everyone is talking about, but I need to remember to include some funny books as well, for my own sanity :)

Welp, that’s it for tonight, dinner time!!  Have a wonderful Wednesday!

 

Blackberry Winter

Hi everyone!

Sorry I’ve been out for a bit, but I am back with a book review I promised.

I love reading, so I love taking part in various book clubs or opportunities to read different books.  Each month, Julie hosts a book club, and I decided to partake in this one because I liked the author.  Hence, I have a review for you for Blackberry Winter.

Blackberry Winter

As always, let’s start with the goodreads.com synopsis:

“Seattle, 1933. Single mother Vera Ray kisses her three-year-old son, Daniel, goodnight and departs to work the night-shift at a local hotel. She emerges to discover that a May-Day snow has blanketed the city, and that her son has vanished. Outside, she finds his beloved teddy bear lying face-down on an icy street, the snow covering up any trace of his tracks, or the perpetrator’s.
Seattle, 2010. Seattle Herald reporter Claire Aldridge, assigned to cover the May 1 “blackberry winter” storm and its twin, learns of the unsolved abduction and vows to unearth the truth. In the process, she finds that she and Vera may be linked in unexpected ways..”

I really really enjoyed this book.  The story was incredibly interesting, and I loved how it bounced back and forth between the different time periods in the same location (Seattle).  It was so interesting to learn how things were in the 1930′s (love that time period), but also interesting to see Claire connect the dots.

I have to admit, several aspects of the “mystery” were predictable, including where Vera’s apartment building is now, and even the ending.   But that’s ok, because it was an enjoyable ride.

I wouldn’t say this was a page-turner in the suspenseful sense, but it was in the “this is a fun, interesting read” sense.  I read Sarah Jio’s The Bungalow and that was similar.  I wasn’t on the edge of my seat, but like this book, I like the characters, I rooted for all of them, and the writing wasn’t complicated.

Sarah Jio doesn’t try to be someone she’s not — the characters are relatable, easy to cheer for,  and you can finish this book in a couple days.  It doesn’t make you question humanity or have a deeper meaning — it’s just a good ol fashioned mystery that I really enjoyed.

Sharp Objects

Happy Wednesday!!

This week has been super busy, but has flown by at least!  A few things I’m looking forward to?  Valentine’s Day (Milo is my Valentine this year because last year we were in Hawaii and couldn’t celebrate with him), my BIRTHDAY!!, and dinner on Saturday.  Then getting through one more week and it’s vacation!!

My valentine!

But in the meantime, I wanted to share with you another Gillian Flynn book I read.

If you pay attention to books at all, you have heard of Gone Girl, and I reviewed it as part of my book club with Alysha and Brittney.  If you recall, I really liked Flynn’s writing, I loved the mystery of the book, but I HATED the ending.  I decided to give her another chance and read Sharp Objects.  This one had a much better ending, and I can do the whole review without spoilers, so read on :)

Sharp Objects

As always, here is the synopsis from goodreads.com (edited a bit):

“Words are like a road map to reporter Camille Preaker’s troubled past. Fresh from a brief stay at a psych hospital, Camille’s first assignment from the second-rate daily paper where she works brings her reluctantly back to her hometown to cover the murders of two preteen girls.  Since she left town eight years ago, Camille has hardly spoken to her neurotic, hypochondriac mother or to the half-sister she barely knows: a beautiful thirteen-year-old with an eerie grip on the town. Now, installed again in her family’s Victorian mansion, Camille is haunted by the childhood tragedy she has spent her whole life trying to cut from her memory.
As Camille works to uncover the truth about these violent crimes, she finds herself identifying with the young victims—a bit too strongly. Clues keep leading to dead ends, forcing Camille to unravel the psychological puzzle of her own past to get at the story. Dogged by her own demons, Camille will have to confront what happened to her years before if she wants to survive this homecoming.”

Although I didn’t like the overall story as much as Gone Girl, I loved this book.  The mystery was pretty intense, as well Camille’s demons that she was dealing with throughout the book.  Much like Gone Girl, it was hard to sympathize with any characters (Camille was definitely messed up), but I didn’t hate Camille, so that was a step in the right direction.  I hated her mother though, but that helped add to the story.

I still really like Flynn’s writing, but as this was her first book, I don’t think it was quite as polished or inventive as Gone Girl.  But I still liked the feel of the story (I like darker mysteries) and loved the ending!  There was justice!  And honestly, I thought the ending was predictable, but then it threw me for a loop at the last minute — I love that!

It was also a super easy read — a definite page-turner and was less than 300 pages, so I flew through it.  If you like gritty mysteries, and can handle characters that have some serious issues, I definitely recommend this.  Not literary genius, but it was fun, interesting, and suspenseful at times.  In my mind, that’s a great combo!

I’m considering Flynn’s other book, Dark Places, but I’m waiting Brittney to let me know if I should :)

Well, that’s it for tonight.  More spin tomorrow :)

Happy almost Valentine’s Day!!

Matched Book Review

TGIF!  Seriously!  Although, my Friday evening didn’t start out so great as there was so much more snow that I had to shovel again (and now my heel is killing me!), but a glass of wine and this guy will make it better :)

As promised, time for the Matched book review!

Matched by Ally Condie

Here is the brief synopsis from goodreads.com:

“Cassia has always trusted the Society to make the right choices for her: what to read, what to watch, what to believe. So when Xander’s face appears on-screen at her Matching ceremony, Cassia knows with complete certainty that he is her ideal mate… until she sees Ky Markham’s face flash for an instant before the screen fades to black.

The Society tells her it’s a glitch, a rare malfunction, and that she should focus on the happy life she’s destined to lead with Xander. But Cassia can’t stop thinking about Ky, and as they slowly fall in love, Cassia begins to doubt the Society’s infallibility and is faced with an impossible choice: between Xander and Ky, between the only life she’s known and a path that no one else has dared to follow.”

This book is the first in a young adult trilogy, but I’m not sure if I’ll read the next two.  This book was touted as being similar to Hunger Games (which I loved!), and it definitely was in regards to the Society, but I didn’t like it nearly as much.

The book basically centers around Cassia’s growing feelings for Ky, and her struggle to choose between her match and best friend Xander and Ky.  I’m not a big fan of romance stories in general and that was the entire focus of this book.  What I loved about Hunger Games was that if you took out the love triangle, there was still an amazing story.  Here, if you take out the triangle, there would be about a chapter or two of things going on with the Society.

I really wanted to know more about the Society.  It was so strict and had so many requirements and procedures, and I wanted to know more about that.  For me, the only drama I cared about in the book concerned the Society and not the love drama, so I was disappointed that was in the background.

I was also hoping Cassia’s relationship with her grandfather would be established more, and I was also hoping to get more explanation about what Cassia’s future would be like in the Society.  Instead, we got a lot of information about her feelings for a guy see never cared about until she saw a picture of him once.  A little unlikely.

Keep in mind, because I haven’t read the other two books, my concerns with the book might be fixed in those, but based on this book alone, it was too much young love and not enough Society drama, so I would say pass on this unless you aren’t as cold-hearted as me :)

Well, that’s it!  Enjoy your weekend!!

Thursday Tangents

Happy Thursday!  More tangents because they are my faves :)

1.  So, I have a random heel injury that kept me from running today.  It’s been bugging me all week, but this morning was the first time it was actually difficult to walk when I woke up, so I decided running was not in my best interest.  I was pretty bummed about it because I hate missing workouts, but I did a 42-minute Jillian Michaels circuit video, so that helped.

2.  Also, I shouldn’t complain about not getting a full workout because then this happens — lots and lots of snow that had to be cleared before James got home from work (because his car isn’t great in the snow and definitely would NOT have made it up the driveway).  So I shoveled.  While it was still snowing, mind you, so that was depressing, but regardless I got it done.  Being a homeowner in Wisconsin in February isn’t awesome.

How great does it look? I know, not great

3.  Community came back tonight!  If you didn’t watch it, you missed out.  And you should also DVR the rest of the season.  Do it now.

Great show!

4.  My BodyPump workout on Wednesday was terrible.  It was a new release, and I wasn’t a fan of the music, so I kind of just went through the motions.  Hopefully tomorrow will be better — same music, but hopefully I’ll be more motivated.

5. I am currently obsessed with two things:  Special K Blondie Bites and Coffee greek yogurt with dark chocolate.  I have to admit, I didn’t realize it was coffee flavored when I bought it and was a little peeved when I discovered it — until I tried it.  Crazy delicious!

Eat these now!

Pleasantly surprised by this

6. I had lunch with Alysha and Brittney to discuss Matched for our book club, so that review is coming tomorrow.  Get excited for that!

Matched review coming

That’s it for tonight!  Have a great Friday!